My friend at Preservation Jazz Hall in New Orleans |
This will be
my 77th birthday. Nothing sad about that or depressing in any way.
As a matter of fact I feel very fortunate to have made it thus far in my allotted
years, however many they may be, and I am feeling pretty healthy for the most
part. Oh, I have a few issues like glaucoma and atrial fibrillation, but both are well under control. Other than that
and in spite of that, life is good.
I still play
the guitar and sing, mostly for my own entertainment. I go for regular, almost daily walks on the
tow path along the canal here in Lambertville. I love going out to eat (one of
my favorite things to do) and travel to places I am fond of—places like
Colonial Williamsburg and the coast of New England for a couple of examples. I
enjoy our home and where we live. I love reading, doing crossword puzzles,
sitting by the fire, having company visit, listening to music (classical,
spiritual, and New Age in the morning, classic folk and light rock in the
afternoon, and jazz in the late afternoon and evening.) And it’s really nice to
be retired after 44 years as a church professional, aka clergy.
So, life is
good.
The things
that are upsetting to me in addition to the political environment in our
country at the moment, are: what’s happening within the United Methodist Church
these days, the many things that are effecting the relationships within the
human family around the world, the sad disregard for our environment, and the
potential political threats to our National Parks. There are a few other
things, but that’s enough for now.
So 77 years
will have gone by for me on the day of my birthday. As a kid, I never wanted to
ever move away from my hometown of Medford. When my parents would talk of doing
that, I let them know that they didn’t have my approval. I don’t think that
that was the reason we never moved, but maybe it was of some influence. Of
course, as an adult, I moved to many places, including Fort Dix during the
Vietnam War at the request of Uncle Sam.
I will have
to say that not all of my dreams have come true, not all of my ambitions have
been fulfilled, and not all of my plans have come into fruition. On the one
hand, you could say that that’s too bad, but it really isn’t—far from it. It’s
not too bad because I have a very happy and contented life. Not all things are
meant to be and for good reason I suppose. God’s will? I don’t know. Most certainly it’s in part due
to decisions I made along the way because, after all, we are free to make
choices along our life’s journey. But I will say this:
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair…
[from The Road
Not Taken by Robert Frost]
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